i swear o you formspring is the new way to talk shit and no one knows you said it.lol.but aside from all the mess that lingers.there are some real questions that are asked.ok so i've been on this no sex thing for about 7 months now.met a great guy and really got to figure out what it is that i want out of life and in a relationship.now those of you who know me know that i am vulgar and i do love sex.just because i love sex doesnt mean that i have to have sex all the time tho.i dont let it run my life.well anymore anyways...but here is something someone asked me:
Q: how can you like penis but be celibate?
A: that doesnt mean i dont like penis....
then it was followed by....
Q: have u practiced celibacy?
A: i've tried it before i went a year or so...this time around im not really callin it celibacy its more of a break.im just trying to get more in touch with my inner self and figure out what i really want out of a relationship.i do like sex but i know i dont need it.celibacy is serious.you gotta have ya mind right n be ready to go back to living life like when you were a virgin as pure as cocaine..lol...im not trying to put that much pressure on myself...i gotta take this one step at a time....damn i sound like a recovering addict....
now what's your take on this? do you feel as though you use sex as a crutch? is it something you just do? are you comfortable with your lifestyle? im not here to judge or point fingers.i just want to know how you feel.what's going on in your sex life?....anywho...muah kisses.leave me something interesting.and always remember be safe!
Really sex is only a crutch if you let it become one. There's other things that take the space and time for sex but you just have to find out what it is. I love sex more than any other man but i found myself going without it for 2 years [not because I got it like that, I just had too much shit to do than worry about some sex]. With things like a time consuming hobby, a job, & school you could actually keep your mind off of it. Sex is on the man's mind at least 12 times a day [AT LEAST!!!] and I'm no scientist but that's a lot of fuckin on the mind. The lifestyle part really cant be judged because to each is own...I'm pretty comfortable with mines and you are too. You had your ambitions and you stuck to em' & so did I.
ReplyDeletetotally feel that.for a long time it was just sex sex sex.and the reason for me stopping was because after a while i stopped feeling anything.i got tired of there not being any emotion.i felt like shit afterwards.but now that i've chilled and spent time with myself i really got to know myself.this break doesnt necessarily make me "pure" but i feel as though it has put many things in place for me and has be more in tune with what's going on spiritually within =.]
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